Strip her inhibitions without a bigger penis
Prude to Nude or Be a Cunning Linguist
A bigger penis is NOT really the answer to stripping her inhibitions. The right words and gestures will make her comfortable in the bedroom, and for that you do not need a bigger penis.
Supercharging your sex life doesn't mean having a bigger penis nor does it have to involve pills, toys or a new technique. Your tongue, however, helps. It involves making a woman feel comfortable naked. And that means using the right approach.
Here's how to talk her out of her clothes:-
"A woman with self-confidence who's at peace
with her body is going to be a good lover," says Dr Dennis Sugrue, co-author of
Sex Matters for Women. This works with wives, girlfriends and new lovers.
TELL THE TRUTH Praise her often, and praise her well. "Make it clear that you
find her attractive," says Sugrue, "but do it in a way that rings true." Let her
see you checking her out. And tell her she's sexy when she's coming back from
the gym, or rolling out of bed, or anytime she wouldn't expect it. It's a chance
to ogle with impunity.
BE SPECIFIC Saying "You look awesome," may seem extravagant. But it's too vague. Give her a very specific reason why you find her irresistible - the curve of he neck, the way she walks. "My boyfriend constantly tells me how much he loves each part of me individually :'I love your stomach,' or 'I love your back,'" says Jennifer, 30. "it's hard to feel insecure about the whole package when each part is mentioned as something great."
GO DIM In the bedroom, women want the warm glow of an R-rated movie love scene, not the harsh glare of a porn flick. Buy some 15- or 25-watt bulbs, suggests Paul Gregory, whose firm, Focus Lighting, created the romantic ambience at the New York City restaurant Nobu. "Change the bulbs before she comes over," he says. Also, everyone looks great in candlelight.
GO SOFT Relax - we're talking about how the things in your home fell. Cold, rough surfaces will make women want to put on more clothes, not take them off. "Everything should be soft," says Sivon Reznikoff, author of Sensuous Space. "Soft pillows, soft music, soft sheets, soft textures."
